Heee! I can’t tell you how many times this exact scenario has played itself out in my own car.

eerie zenlike eye of storm calm…..good god that made me laugh!

I commiserate on the heartbreaking “thump”. V hasn’t thrown his shoes yet, but my car floor has toys & crackers in various states of sogginess. I really need to clean it!

Mmmm…peanut butter brownies… *drool*

I’ll take Samoas on Christian Bale, please!

Yeah, wow, what DO you do when you can’t drink a bottle of wine after a hard day?? I guess Clive Owen covered in Thin Mint crumbs is an awfully good second best. Mmm, Thin Mints.

Many times I have read your comments section and well-meaning and unknowing commenters will suggest that you deal with some stressor by pouring yourself a drink…and I think to myself, “what would I do without my liquidy alcoholic crutch on days like this?” and I feel kind of impressed with you.

For us, it isn’t the shoe, it is the pacifier, aka “mommy.” (I, on the other hand, am “mama”–VERY important distinction.) Other than that small detail, you have just described every car trip we take.

Although why on earth a child decides–repeatedly–to thrust away the ONE SINGLE THING on God’s green earth that he apparently must have in order to be at peace, I’ll never understand. I guess that’s toddlerhood for you.

At least Thin Mints (and Samoas) make a great coping mechanism. Peeps are good this time of year, too.

Yeah. That’s my life. I look forward to warm weather when my almost three year old can march her ass out to the car barefoot and I can just hand the damn shoes to the daycare teacher – here, YOU put ’em on her. I’m done. Of course, there’s the butt load of toys and books to throw on the floor and whine about. Boo hoo, baby! Stop fucking droppin’ ’em! I may have to attach everything to bungee cords that drop from the ceiling so everything will be in her face (and will annoy her by bopping her in the head when I make a hard turn). but at least they’ll never fall to the floor. Unless she pulls the whole headliner down. Of course, I’ll probably wreck the car and kill us all so my problems will be over.

People, please. None of this Thin Mint nonsense. I will accept nothing less than Mint Milanos dappled over both the delightfully crisp Johnny Depp AND the deliciously creamy Kate Winslet, perhaps in a sunlit grove somewhere, under an apple tree, and…

Actually, I’d rather have Clive & Cookies than the wine, thanks.

This was hilarious, especially that moment of finally just blowing up and getting the shoe. Sounds so much like me. Just ask my husband. Of course when he blows up, I act like I’m always Ms. Calm and Rational, telling him to settle down. Ah, the schizophrenia of parenthood.

You mean the shoe hit the floor and didn’t bounce off the back of your head? Jr kept hitting me in the back of the head with several hot wheels cars one day, in the SAME SPOT. I don’t have problems with alcohol yet I like your Girl Scout cookie fantasy best. WOOF!

Before I make my comment I would like to say that I am a non-parent and have never babysat, so please excuse my ignorance and feel free to laugh away at me. Ah-hem, is it possible to just leave the toy/shoe/pacifier on the floor and put in ear plugs for the rest of the ride? Or does that cross the line into evil parent territory with CPS knocking on your door?

Skip the cookies- Clive has the greenest of eyes…. and when he is screaming at Julia Roberts in “Closer” ohhhhhh my gawwwwd….. I want to slap her for him! How could she…….. I need a moment now!

I would just take the freakin’ box of Girl Scout Cookies, really.
Tagalongs, please.

Um, your description of a g&t is umm, to the T. Mouth is watering. Yes, I am drooling at work.

Ooooh, me likey this train of thought. How about pulled pork BBQ with vinegar and hot sauce served atop Elisha Cuthbert with some hush puppies and slaw on the side. Maybe even some hand feeding for desert. Baklava if you don’t mind. Yes, that’ll do …. mmmmmmmmmmm! ; )

And as far as the screaming kid goes, just drown them out with the stereo. Or even better, bring a fog horn with you and literaly scare the crap of of him whenever he throws a tantrum. Also, tan his hide. That’s what my parents did to me, and I still fear that horrid oak rod. You best believe my kids will respect the sting if they don’t respect me. Nothing says cut it out like searing pain. (the loving kind of course, nothing but the best for my devil spawn)

…and there you have the opening page of your book. Absolutely brilliant! How do you put into words EXACTLY what many of us go through every day with such hilarity?

Given the choice, I’d always pick food over alcohol. When someone invents deep fried salt in carmel cream sauce, my life will be complete. Until then, I fantasize about flying to Thailand and having a giant vat of Pad Thai on the tarmac that I can plunge into face first.

Seriously.

Our girl flings her precious, precious panda bear out of her crib, then screams to have it back, then flings it out in a rage as we depart, then screams pitifully to have it back, etc.

I hate to say it, but I’m so glad I’m no longer in that stage of childhood (with my children, I mean). I now just have teenagers who think they’re grown and can make the rules even though they don’t pay the bills, pre-teens who are prone to spending days moping in their rooms and a mother who thinks I am the worst f-ing daughter in the world. Where is that bottle of wine? Or maybe just dunk me in a vat of dark chocolate with a few peanuts thrown in.

I could use a little Clive Owen right now.

You are hilarious. Clive Owens could be so lucky.

Some of my angriest moments have been in the car with my screaming toddler; I can relate. We have finally, however, explained that we have to drive with both hands on the wheel (unless one hand is chugging coffee, of course) and she seems to get it. This works about 1/2 the time and the other half she spends, uh, demanding her football/cup/doll/book. Driving down I-5 to Medford (you know the route well!) we had an hour-long screamfeast because we weren’t playing her music.

Pringles potato chips on Orlando Bloom.

YES. Unfortunately, YES.

Today we have a new twist to the ride home– puke…but at least it distracted him from whining about not being home yet.

Were you *in* my truck with us today? Seriously. The shrieking and wailing meant that my “eerie zenlike eye-of-storm calm” lasted mere seconds before I actually PULLED OVER to tilt my seat back and find the damn soother. sigh. She wins again.

Why do we try to explain the whole cause and effect?! I find myself doing this all the time and THERE’S NO REASON!

I think you may have been riding with us today.

Um, I’ll take Fran’s Sea Salt Caramels on Jake Gyllenhaal, thaaaaaaaanks.

Can’t drink, that’s why there’s pot ;-)
But there goes the diet. Can’t smoke without raw chocolate chip cookie dough.

I think that game is probably one of the worst games to have to play with your kids. Though at least there’s less crying as they get older, but then there is also more evil knowledge of exactly how much they are driving you crazy. My son will actually say “oh, Mommy, am I ANNOYING you? Are you ANNOYED?” and smile evilly.

I think I have to second the Mint Milanos/Johnny Depp/Kate Winslet/dappled grove fantasy, only can we trade out Johnny Depp for my darling Sufjan? Because then life would be complete. Especially if we dripped some ice cream on his chest for me to…. well, this is a parenting blog so I should probably stop there.

[…] Thoughts of Calgon Which is kind of a boring fantasy, so let?s try taking the cookies?Thin Mints, of course?out of the bag and scattering them across the naked, lightly sweating torso of Clive Owen, who is reclining on a set of thousand-thread-count … […]

Johnny Depp and Death by Chocolate ice cream. Mmm. It makes me happy just contemplating. :-)

Perfect. Just exactly my experience this morning, subbing a book for the shoe.

Ooooh, Clive Owen. He gives me impure thoughts too.

You’ve been in my car coming back from daycare haven’t you?! Perfect, hilarious description!

Mmmm Clive Owen. I just KNOW he’d make everything bad about my day a distant memory with or without the cookies…

Oh Clive Owen, you are so delicious.

Melted chocolate is going to be *really* hard to get out of those sheets.

You just described my drive in this morning. I find that one (usually) effective strategy is to use the magic of power windows to my advantage — few things shut up a toddler more quickly and effectively than having the window next to them suddenly fly open and blast them with fresh air.

Snow and/or rain also helps in this scenario.

CD player. Volume raised. Screaming drowned out by combination of Evanescence and Mommy loudly shout-singing along with dear Amy.

Four kids. Four things to drop. Do the math. They probably have no hearing left.