Two quick things for today:

Thing the first: JB recently got a Macbook, after years (YEARS) of kvetching about how superior PCs were, and now of course he’s in love with having a laptop that actually, you know, works. One of the nicest things about us both having computers that don’t suck is that we can easily do videochats without the million and one technical problems that always came up before. So I got to chat with Riley last night and receive video kisses, which was awesome.

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Thing the second: I made a little movie to commemorate Riley turning three years old. Which, uh, happened in August, but I figure as long as I got it done before the end of 2008 I still get the medal.

What? There’s no medal? Well, fuck. Here it is anyway:


Riley: 3 years from Linda Lee on Vimeo.

Made in iMovie, and featuring the saptastic tunes of Ben Folds (”The Luckiest”).

Comments

71 Responses to “Short, sweet”

  1. Lori on November 16th, 2008 2:57 pm

    Weeping. Copious weeping. That was so pretty.

  2. Valria on November 16th, 2008 3:03 pm

    ditto on the weeping

  3. Trina on November 16th, 2008 3:21 pm

    That was so awesome! It has inspired me to do something similar. :)

  4. Amy on November 16th, 2008 3:41 pm

    Amazingly beautiful! What a wonderful memory to share and for him to look back on. And yes, you DO win the medal!!!

  5. Eric's Mommy on November 16th, 2008 3:46 pm

    Wow Linda, that was beautiful.

  6. Emily on November 16th, 2008 3:46 pm

    Perfection. Absolute perfection.

  7. diane on November 16th, 2008 3:53 pm

    Hard to see through the tears….so I had to watch it again and, yup. it was as wonderful as I thought the first time. Your boys are so lucky to have you for a mama.

  8. Amy on November 16th, 2008 3:53 pm

    So beautiful! It made me cry!

  9. Sarah Miller on November 16th, 2008 4:02 pm

    How, how, HOW is it possible to get that sapped up about a kid I’ve got no attachment to and have never ever met? Gah!

  10. thejunebug on November 16th, 2008 4:11 pm

    Aww, Linda, that made me teary. *sniffle* I can’t believe he’s three years old! (WELL OKAY, three years and almost 3 months, but still.)

  11. Clueless But Hopeful Mama on November 16th, 2008 4:12 pm

    I want MY medal for resisting the weeping until the bitter (OH MY GOD SO SWEET WHERE ARE MY TISSUES AH EFF-IT HERE’S MY SLEEVE) end.

    And I’m pregnant. TOTALLY medal worthy. (Both of us.)

  12. warcrygirl on November 16th, 2008 4:18 pm

    Man I love the pictures you take! I wish I had my Nikon when mine were little. Beautiful vid!

  13. beach on November 16th, 2008 4:24 pm

    beautiful…..I had a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes watching this….again….beautiful!!!

  14. kirida on November 16th, 2008 4:44 pm

    Did you use the new iMovie for this? I can’t seem to get it. The old version was so much friendlier for luddites like me!

  15. Deanna on November 16th, 2008 4:50 pm

    So beautiful! So well done! So much cuteness…

  16. Crystal on November 16th, 2008 4:55 pm

    That was beautiful. If I send you our pictures and videos, can you make me one? :)

    The only thing I miss was the emo-pirate. But I guess that was after he turned 3, so I forgive you.

    Great job…

  17. Maureen on November 16th, 2008 4:56 pm

    Wow, that was incredible. I can’t believe Riley is 3, just like I can’t believe my own baby is 14. Now I need to go find the kleenex.

  18. Joanne on November 16th, 2008 4:57 pm

    Hoo Boy! I started crying *before* I pressed play. I just started reading you when Riley was born. My baby was born in June of the same year and he was SO BAD and it seemed like Riley was SO GOOD. I remember one time you went to a hotel? I thought how can she take that little baby to a hotel? We would get kicked out! I have really enjoyed these last three years, living vicariously through you having a good baby who now talks normally and is on point developmentally. It makes me wistful and jealous, a little, but mostly so happy to see the adorable BOY that Riley has become. I hope this doesn’t sound too crazy!

  19. kathleen on November 16th, 2008 5:16 pm

    oh jesus— heart and uterus exploding. my boyfriend thanks you in advance for my next ‘kids, soon? please?’ conversation.

  20. Jules on November 16th, 2008 6:17 pm

    Really enjoyed this. I never had thought about “The Luckiest” in this context (always was a first dance at a wedding type of song for me), but it TOTALLY works.

    Your family is lovely.

  21. sara moon on November 16th, 2008 6:37 pm

    oh god. big lump in throat. beautiful, linda.

  22. Marie Green on November 16th, 2008 6:41 pm

    That was really beautiful Linda. Thanks for sharing so much with all of us.

  23. SJ on November 16th, 2008 6:50 pm

    So sweet, what a great video. Thanks for sharing your beautiful family with us!

  24. wm on November 16th, 2008 7:25 pm

    What a wonderful gift to prepare for him. I think he’ll treasure it someday.

  25. Jennifer on November 16th, 2008 7:38 pm

    Oh gosh, speechless here. He looks like such a GROWN boy in that last photo too. Fantastic time progression.

    You really are talented at this stuff!

    p.s. snickering about JB getting a Macbook.

  26. kali on November 16th, 2008 7:39 pm

    The funny thing is how many of those pictures I remember seeing just like it was yesterday… I can’t even imagine much more intense that must be for you.
    (and ps- I TOTALLY almost bought that foam sword this summer!)

  27. Nikki on November 16th, 2008 7:49 pm

    Just lovely. Thank you for sharing.

  28. Emily on November 16th, 2008 8:18 pm

    Beautiful. Don’t know if it’s my hormones or the fact that I now have one of my own, but I have happy tears streaming down my face. I love it. Your family is absolutely beautiful.

  29. TUWABVB on November 16th, 2008 8:35 pm

    That was so beautiful!! Thank you for sharing. I’m amazed at how his face changed so much, but yet stayed the same also. His features are so wonderfully distinctive.

  30. Victoria on November 16th, 2008 8:44 pm

    awwwwww

  31. Jennie C. on November 16th, 2008 9:31 pm

    Saptastic and SO BEAUTIFUL. I love the photos of airborne Riley and cake-licker Riley.

    I brought the cake to my nephew’s 3rd birthday this weekend and when he saw me come in the door with it he shrieked in delight, ran to his chair and cleared a spot with a violent sweep of his arms. Cups went flying and he was READY. It was SO adorable.

  32. fuzzy on November 16th, 2008 9:41 pm

    airborne’s my favorite, too. And my husband and I just got Mac laptops, and crud, are we ever in love. And I (or he) must do something like that for our kids. I’m currently struggling with packing a year’s worth of photos into my free Oprah photobook online, and it is a pain– but seeing this made me realize why it’s worth all this time.

  33. Kate on November 16th, 2008 9:41 pm

    So sweet. I’m gonna have to do one of those montages for my kids. And make myself cry.

  34. biscuit on November 16th, 2008 9:44 pm

    THANK GOD for the picture at the end of Riley blowing bubbles in Dylan’s face because I needed a laugh to fight back the tears.

    LOVE Ben Folds.

    A+, wonderful momma!

  35. Anais on November 16th, 2008 9:45 pm

    More weeping in this corner!!! That was lovely.

  36. Kristi on November 16th, 2008 9:51 pm

    I love your videos – whenever I watch one I always think, damn I should do that!

    I’ve been trying to convert my husband to the Apple side for a couple of years now – and he’s just about to cave. I keep trying to tell him it’s for his own good, really. He just doesn’t realize it yet!

  37. Pete on November 16th, 2008 10:11 pm

    Very nice.

  38. Angelynn on November 17th, 2008 12:24 am

    That was a wonderful video. You all seem so happy, content, and loved. I really enjoy reading your posts. I have 2 boys, 1 and 3 and am in love with every moment. You’re inspiring. Thank you!

  39. Donna on November 17th, 2008 1:30 am

    Three. Already. I can’t believe it. Seems like just yesterday you disappeared and JB finally posted that you had to go in and have an emergency C section. Three years. Damn.

    And also, my laptop is taking a dump even as we speak and going into the geek squad tommorrow. When the virus protection expires, BELIEVE it and renew. Duh.
    Signed: Getting new credit cards passwords and my life is jacked now.

  40. kim on November 17th, 2008 6:47 am

    just beautiful. you are in the wrong business. your work should include you making these amazing videos for others.

  41. Suzanne on November 17th, 2008 6:52 am

    The amazing thing about this world of blogs is that while I don’t know you, I feel as though I’ve known you forever. The proof…totally weeping at this video, encapsulated in your sweet world (don’t worry…not a psycho crazy…just, well, you know!). You have some very lucky little men in your life and one day Riley will be showing this to his children thinking dang I was a lucky kid!

  42. Michelle on November 17th, 2008 7:13 am

    Totally crying over here … great song choice!

  43. Angie on November 17th, 2008 7:25 am

    Medal? You should get a mother of the year award for making something so wonderful to honor your little boy. He is a beautiful little boy and has been amazing to watch grow! Thank you for sharing him with all of us over the last 3 years. You are for sure doing something right as a mother. Hold your head high and be proud of the mother you have become.

  44. Mel on November 17th, 2008 7:37 am

    OK now I am going to have to wait to watch this video until after I am home and have tucked the kiddies into bed. No need for co-workers to see me weeping away, or the kiddies for that matter.

    Did have to comment though on the Mac vs PC thing! My hubbie is a graphic artist and believe it or not has been a hard core PC supporter forever…until last year his best friend and fellow geek got a Mac. Well it took him about 18 months and he finally caved and got one. Now it is litterally attached to his hip. He is such a geek that he video conferences me from the basement instead of walking up the stairs! Yeh Yeh and I still married him!

  45. Annika on November 17th, 2008 7:55 am

    Riley is so lucky to be in your family. God dammit, I’m sitting at my desk sobbing. That was beautiful.

  46. Bumbling on November 17th, 2008 8:25 am

    Great video Linda, I too have been reading your blogs since Riley was born and I can’t believe how big he is.

    **Giggly aside** – LOL you just made a bunch of strangers cry, you are ALL POWERFUL!

  47. Amity on November 17th, 2008 8:27 am

    Awesome! That song is amazing. :)

  48. Lisa on November 17th, 2008 8:37 am

    I just put my dang mascara on! Sheesh…

    That was so, so nice. Don’t you just love being a mama?

  49. Samantha on November 17th, 2008 8:38 am

    I almost couldn’t watch the whole thing as the tears started to shed.
    Thanks, thanks for making me cry at work as you have tons of times before.

    And here’s your medal!

  50. jenn on November 17th, 2008 11:44 am

    awesome….but no photos of “suspicious face”???

  51. Amy M. on November 17th, 2008 11:51 am

    I really need to stop crying at work. Thanks!

    It was a beautiful video – thanks for sharing with us! Now, I need to get my rear in gear & do something like this for my almost 3-year-old…

  52. iidly on November 17th, 2008 12:38 pm

    simply.lovely.

  53. Leah on November 17th, 2008 12:52 pm

    Damn you, Ben Folds. And damn you, Linda. My eyes are leaking all over my desk. I just love your family too much.

  54. Angella on November 17th, 2008 1:44 pm

    I was just thinking I needed a good cry. Way too sweet…

  55. Dana on November 17th, 2008 2:27 pm

    I absolutely LOVED this video…I actually got a little weepy. Yeah, seriously. I see Riley and Dylan with their father and, being a single Mom, it warms my heart to know that there are wonderful fathers out there like JB, who clearly adore their children, and it makes me sad and pisses me off a little that my daughter doesn’t get to experience that with her father. You and JB are amazing parents and I look forward to reading your blog every chance I get. Thank you for making my day!

  56. Donna on November 17th, 2008 2:45 pm

    Oh my. Just. . . . oh my. . . . I can’t believe I’ve adored (from afar!) that little guy for 3 years already.

  57. Allison on November 17th, 2008 2:45 pm

    It’s so weird getting weepy over strangers! That was terrific, especially the use of one of my favourite songs of all time. Wah!! 3 years, such a big boy.

  58. Amanda on November 17th, 2008 3:19 pm

    Duuuude. Goosebumps. Can we be friends? I need to be able to suck the coolness off of your brain. Seriously. It’s possible, I’ve seen it in stories.

    Really, really beautiful. You rock. (And HE is BEAUTIFUL. What an amazing splicing of genes you’ve got there. Holy crap.)

  59. Jane on November 17th, 2008 4:44 pm

    Holy God! Amazing…the best picture (if forced at gunpoint to choose cause they are all really fantastic)is the one of JB smiling directly into the camera while bookended by the boys. So telling of his fabulousness as a Daddy and totally fitting with the song as being “The Luckiest”

    Nicely done, Linda!

    PS Can’t believe how much he looks JUST like he did as an infant–wow!

  60. Sonia on November 17th, 2008 5:01 pm

    *sob* This has been a really emotional day for me and then you had to go and post THAT. *slobber, schniff, whimper* It is a lovely video Linda.

  61. Kelli on November 17th, 2008 6:07 pm

    That was so touching. What a lovely little family you have.

  62. Jennie on November 17th, 2008 6:37 pm

    For some reason, watching this made having kids seem less scary. Thank you for that. You win a medal for making the cutest kids in the world! Seriously! Thanks for letting us peek into your lives…it’s amazing.

  63. Cali911Gal on November 17th, 2008 10:15 pm

    +1 with the tears… “I love you more than I have ever found a way to say to you” slayed me….

    How DO you do these wonderful videos?

  64. mnerva on November 17th, 2008 11:18 pm

    Oh Linda, you picked probably one of my all time fave Ben Folds songs (I am a HUGE fan of Ben). And yes, it is saptastic, but I think that’s why I like it so much. Your pictures are beautiful. In the 7 or so years that I’ve read your blog you have grown so much. It’s amazing how affected a person can be by someone they’ve never met and never “really” known. I wish Riley a happy 3rd (belated, obviously). And totally bestow you the medal!!

  65. Naomi in Oz on November 17th, 2008 11:42 pm

    Oh man!! I wasn’t going to cry and now I’m blubbing like a baby. You are the luckiest!!

  66. Melis on November 18th, 2008 7:26 am

    So in love with your little family and wishing our boys could hang out and play (the smaller ones, not the bigger ones-JB would make G look like a total wuss).

    Also? Totally wanting a copy of that song!!!

  67. Sarah on November 18th, 2008 8:14 am

    Linda,

    I’ve been lurking here since shortly after my first baby — a boy — was born in March. Belated thanks, thanks, thanks for getting me through with a much-needed dose of humor and sarcasm on so many occasions. Most days, I have no idea what I’m doing with a very active, boyish boy. You’re so perfectly relevant in my world it’s astounding. As for the movie, I watched it (twice) with my baby Ezra, and it had us both grinning ear to ear. (Which is saying a lot, since he reserves that smile for his own reflection.)

  68. Karen on November 18th, 2008 9:28 am

    Weeping…weeping…and I’m a cynical old broad. UNFAIR! ;-)

  69. Leslie on November 18th, 2008 4:30 pm

    That – that was awesome.

  70. Jess on November 18th, 2008 5:28 pm

    I’m eating my dinner while waiting for my spouse to come home. The babies are asleep and I’m bawling. That was beautiful.

  71. Missie on November 21st, 2008 7:34 pm

    Crying over here. Kah-ryy-ing.

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