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He beelines for the place where the hose was dripping and swishes his hand through the muddy water before slowly, contemplatively bringing his fingers to his mouth. Shooed from his dirt-eating, he scampers across the yard and before I can blink he’s reaching for a dog turd, his tiny brow furrowed in concentration.
We dress him in toddler-sized swim trunks and he joyously climbs the tiny built-in slide in the plastic play pool before his feet shoot out from under him and his body somehow goes completely horizontal in midair and he bangs his head with a sickening crash and there are screams and tears and cuddles and two seconds later, he’s climbing that fucking slide again.
No, Dylan, I say as he tries to escape with his father’s computer mouse. “WAHHHH!” he responds, and runs at top speed to the bookshelf and begins pulling books off the shelves, one after another. Thunk. Thunk. Thunk.
He creeps along the patio after a trundling black ant and carefully reaches out a pudgy index finger and accidentally smooshes it. He stares, nearly cross-eyed, and his finger is almost on his tongue when I swoop in. I reposition him and he howls with fury and locks his eyes on mine and reaches down and with vengeful, deliberate motions he quickly stuffs a passing tumbleweed of dog hair IN HIS MOUTH.
I’m bent over the dishwasher collecting forks and spoons when SMACK! something slaps me directly across the ass. I turn, and he’s standing there with a mile-wide grin, laughing so hard he’s swaying back and forth. In his hands is a large plastic spatula.
There is a long silence and even though I know better I revel in it a bit and when I finally go to look for him, I find him shoulder-deep in the toilet bowl. He’s so startled when I burst through the door he falls backwards onto his butt, then sits there smiling at me and starts chomping on his toilet-water-soaked fingers.
He falls off the front steps. The back porch. The raised portion of our backyard garden bed. A chair. Another chair. The wooden steps at the cabin in Oregon. The curb of the driveway. The sofa.
I catch him. I don’t. I let him fall. I run to save him at top speed. I absorb the impact of his skull heading earthward with the top of my foot. I watch him, wincing. I watch him, clapping.
He grunts his way onto the couch, then gets himself turned around, spreads his arms and sort of half-jumps, half-falls off, but not before saying, “De inny! An bee!” I goggle open mouthed as I realize he’s imitating his Buzz Lightyear-loving brother: to infinity, and beyond.
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I may have mentioned it once or twice, but Breaking Bad is the best thing that has ever happened to television EVER. You should watch it right now.
Bob Book Series
Riley has honestly learned to read as a result of these little box sets. Cannot recommend enough.
This applesauce bread from Allrecipes is superfast, supereasy, and the kids love it (I leave out the spices).
What a wonderful post, perfectly capturing the essence of a toddler – all chaos and giggles and terror at the same time.
Save this one for the book(s) please!
toddlers bounce, right?
Been there, done that, don’t ever want to do it again. :-)
Yes. Exactly like that. Except in pink.
OMG too cute and so like my 17 mos old grandson. That was writen well.
Thank you! This is exactly my life. reasons why naptime/bedtime are SO IMPORTANT!
I just found out a week ago I am pregnant for the first time. Your posts scare me. A lot.
Oh god cute.
Aw, EB, don’t be scared. What she’s describing sounds scary, as what I describe, but believe me, it’s hard hard hard, but also? FUN. Promise.
Perfect post! Totally cracked me up, as I am in-between the whack mommy’s butt ages right now, so I can afford to laugh. For now.
All I can wonder is how is Riley holding up?
Awesome. You just described my son except swap out the ant for a dead worm. And silence always means in the toliet bowl or that someone forgot to put the gate up and there is a toddler halfway up the stairs. Beautifully, perfectly written.
Awesome and oh so true. My youngest has recently discovered that he can climb fences…oh JOY!
Little boys are made from snips and snails and rubber and puppy dog tails….
The ending is PRICELESS.
I’ve given up tracking The Boy’s bruises.
Annnnnnnd now I want to watch Toy Story again. ;)
Mine’s 15 months and you sum it up perfectly.
Dear Christ. Mine is going to be 10 months old on Wednesday, and we’re just getting to the “pulling shit off the bookshelf” phase, also known as the “hey, why don’t I shove a fistful of dog food into my maw and choke on it and drool out meat by-products for the next hour” phase.
I’m scared.
Oh how cute! I love the ending. Nick is always imitating Gabe. This is exactly it. This is exactly what it feels like to live with a toddler. You are a fantastic writer, and when you finish that book, it will totally rock.
this is funny and cute, but oh my god i’m so happy that i’m not having children.
Sweet boy… even though his breath probably smells like toilet water and dog crap which, ew. But sweet, sweet boy.
My niece is almost two and is in a climbing stage. She drags anything-she-can over to whatever-she-feels like and proceeds to climb.
Mostly she just wants to find a high area where she can dance (we’ve already dubbed her the Toddler Table-dancer) but my sister still panics whenever there’s a silence longer than about 30 secs. in her house.
I can’t wait until you write a book. Really. I love your writing.
Thank God it’s not just us over here.
They WILL grow up with skin on their knees right? Please tell me they do.
I absolutely love how you can catch the essence of a toddler so succinctly. As for the falling; I was convinced I was going to have to send The Captain to school wrapped in bubble wrap.
OMG – exactly like my 17mo daughter. Especially the dog turd. Except I didn’t make it in time.
We must have the same kid…dog hair and all!
What a beautiful post – this makes me want a baby so badly, and makes me pee my pants at the same time at the thought. But hey, at least he keeps the dog hair off the floor, right?
My two nine month olds are always planning escapes out of whatver room they happened to be trapped in. They crawl to the the top of the tallest thing they can get their hands on–and then fall off like it’s nothing. They sit on top of each other, and pull ears and poke eyes.
And you’re telling me it gets worse? Oy vey, I need to invest in some Mike Meyeres/Hyper-Hypo Kid style restraints.
Kids are so fun to watch, yet so gross, yet also kind of awe-inspiring too.
Bekki’s comment above about Hyper-Hypo Kid style restraints is awesome.
Mine also does the Toy Story quotes, but somehow his “and beyond” always sounds like “UP YOURS!”
I laugh every time. I don’t correct him either.
Wow. Apparently my twenty three month old has stayed stuck in the seventeen month stage for quite a while, ’cause that’s pretty much how our days go, too. Here’s hoping age two brings newfound maturity and sudden aversion to germs.
Totally describes my 18 month old, except for any verbal part. Great post.
Dee Inny. An BEE!
You’re a wonderful writer and that’s my new favourite saying.
oh, my toddler recently took a header off the toilet.
the things that dreams are made of…
at least the way YOU write about them!
There is no resting at 2.5 either.
In fact I think the days of resting for anybody are over for the next ten years or so.
And yet most of them make it into adulthood…
omg, that sounds pretty much like my entire day with my 22-month-old, right there. Except she ruined the upholstery on her rocker/glider with the lipstick I accidentally left in her room.
Hang in there.
That sounds exactly like my daughter! Except add a strange kitten obsession in the mix and stir.
I wonder are the second ones that much harder or is it that we’re twice as busy?
nice to know I don’t have the only suicidal toddler.
Good Lord I am shamed to think I could ever write when you throw down with your writing prowess. Gah.
Plus. With 12 month old boy I am just beginning to see this suicidal tendency. My daughter was much more self preserving…
My first son – just about perfect. My second son – if he’d been first, he’d have been last. The last time I took him to T@rget before he had his learners permit (he was about 3), I had him in the cart with a 9 pack of toilet paper and a big can of bug spray, along with other assorted items. He was so quiet and GOOD! For the love of gawd, I should have known something was up. By the time I got to the check out, I discovered he’d poked a pretty good sized hole in the wrapping on the TP and proceeded to empty the entire can of bug spray into package. The 16 year old gave me a look and said “you still want this stuff, right?”. “Of course”, I said.
He didn’t enter another store with me for YEARS people, YEARS.
Shit, my 4 year old is still doing that stuff! Only now he’s roped his 2.5 year old sister into the act. I swear it’s a race to see who wins a trip to the emergency room first!
My God, this is a flawless portrait of the insanity that is 17 months. You put this perfectly.
Cannot wait for that book.
She toddles to the top of the steps and looks down, watching my face for the mix of horror, fear, and determination as I imagine the possibilities and decide to head them off. Her pudgy hand grasps the spindle of the stair rail and she leans way forward, her foot-ham reaching out in midair and looking for purchase on the floor that suddenly isn’t there. She wobbles, steps with all her trust in her own invincibility, and navigates the step without falling. Her face is beatific, triumphant, and she reaches out to do it again. I’m faced with a choice — do I grab her and carry her down or do I let her try so she can learn, practice, and one day go down the stairs on her own two feet with confidence? I decide to act as a pillow, a buffer between her and certain falling; my arms reach out to beckon her on and catch her if she tumbles, and she tries, successfully marching down the steps as only an 18 month old can. She is giddy, larger than life, and I am a puddly mess even as I clap and hoot and holler my appreciation for the feat of her accomplishment.
She stands precariously in the tub, one foot on the lip, threatening to climb out if I instruct her to sit down one. more. time. She is angry, soap nearly in her eyes and I can just see it, her setting one slippery foot on the floor and while she’s still off balance climbing out, that foot slides out from under her and she cracks her head on the nearby toilet. I stop her, and she howls, red faced and pissed off. She squats and I think she’s finally going to listen to me, but then I realized belatedly what she’s doing. I rush to let the water out and get the myriad of toys from the tub before they can be contaminated as she lands a giant turd into the tub and then defiantly stares into my face. “You won’t let me out? Take that, bitch!” Sighing, I send her brother on his fiftieth errand for wet wipes and turn to get the disinfectant from under the sink. When I turn back, she’s painting with the poop. Great.
What the hell do the teenage years hold if she does this kind of thing to get back at me?
So very cute. Brings back memories!
This actually makes me very excited for our little boy to enter the toddler stage. I’ll probably be shaking my head at myself in a few months, but for now, I look forward to it.
Great post! As I was reading I was reminiscing when my son was small. After fall, after fall, after fall, my MIL said you need to get that boy’s head x-rayed and make sure nothing is wrong. He’s 16 now. Nothing’s wrong……
wow – that was awesome!!
love. :)
and i’m beginning to think my boys are pansies compared to dylan. heh.
Wonderful Linda. And absolutely spot-on. :)
The crap that my 20 month old gets into, that his brother never did, it’s incredible. Also, he’s probably not going to get out of toddler-hood without a permanent head injury, but at least I can tell him he did it to himself when he’s older.
You captured this age perfectly.
Silence is always a bad sign!! In my house it usually means a wall is being used as a canvas for some new artwork.
Beautiful and so true. I am in the lull of the storm with mine right now since #1 is 4 and #2 is just turned 1 but I feel it building. Also silence NEVER equals good.
I think that’s why I’m glad that we’re having a little girl next. Our little man continually jumps off things and no matter how many times I scold him, he’s back up on the same piece of furniture/step/other-high-precipice doing it again within minutes and crying moments later, because, gosh! It *still* hurts.
I grew up in a household with three girls; we were no princesses but I don’t remember all this freaking bruising! My husband keeps telling me it’s what boys do. I am not looking forward to little man’s teen-age years and I pray our little girl is a mellow soul.
17 months at our house looks EXACTLY LIKE THIS.
Well, okay, there is no vengeful dog-hair eating, and the most recent copy-quote is a delightful “daint-dyoo” (thank you).
But the stolen computer mice, the climb-crash-climb-crash, the toilet bowl, the spatula (flyswatter at our house)…
YES.
My reaction is half “Oh, thank God” (at 10 months, ours isn’t the only one) and half “OMFG – it’s going to get worse?!”
HAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
livin’ the dream…. but mine is only 14 months. When does it stop?!?!?
that echo’s my current life exactly.
although when I look over to see my 18month old daughter standing on the coffe table, arms in the air, ready to dive on the arm chair, instead of to infinity and beyond, she screams “IOWA”, which is a totally different story.
im tired.
oh no!!! magoo is 15 months and THIS is what i have to look forward to…. at least i’ve been warned.
Okay, I am DYING laughing, the way you put things into words so perfectly never continues to amaze me. I commented on another blog I enjoy (okay yours and hers are the only 2 daily reads) so I was compelled to comment on her site with your website address, and now I want to comment with hers to you…I think you both would equally emjoy each others writing immensely….I know I do….even though I don’t “know” either of you…I look so forward to hearing what you each write every day. You are hilarious!!!!
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Oh good gawd, just reading this as my son and daughter watch Toy Story on holiday on a stormbound remote Scottish island…she’s 3, he’s 11 and still enjoying it just as much. He used to channel Woody when he was little, which was hilarious in a small Scottish boy. I lurk on your blog to admire your fab photos – have just purchased my first Nikon and getting to grips with it.
This made me cry. My children are grown and it’s becoming increasingly difficult to realize that “I’m done”.
A Sundry Classic. I got a stitch reading this. The bit with the spoon really got me going because I could just picture you saying “Right” …
I have a Dylan. Her name is Carys – b. 2/25/8. She is my first and the reason there will not be a second. Crazy she is. We’ll have to introduce them in about 25 years.
This is heartbreakingly sweet and basically describes my 14-month-old son to a T. Little boys are just made differently. I have a girl too and she has never tried to deliberately kill herself. My son though? About 517 times a day. I think all boys would become extinct within minutes if their parents took even just a short break…
Nailed it, perfectly. The ass slapping made me think of the time my then 3 year old son slapped the ass of a bent over, swimsuit wearing, 17 year old lifeguard! Yeah, I died right there. My husbands only response was of course if she was hot or not.
Gotta love the boys, big and small :)
You never cease to amaze me in your complex simplicity. I love to read what you write.
love it! silence in my house means the 21-month-old has somehow gotten past the gate and into the cat’s litter….omfg EW. why is poop so fascinating to them???
The ‘ass slap with the spatula’ made me laugh out loud and I woke up my 18 month old. She’s not as active as Dylan, but likes to run with knives and other sharp things. I’ve really gone grey this year…