To my best friend in the whole world,

I’m sorry our weekend was so grueling and we had to cancel the babysitter and you had to wipe kid barf off the toilet. I’m sorry things are just so incredibly stressful right now and I’m sorry I haven’t worked harder to keep the peace between us. I’m sorry if it hasn’t been clear that I’m on your side through this entire process, that I want to move to Oregon because I believe in my heart it’s what you want to do and I want to make that happen for you and for us. I’m sorry if it’s ever seemed like I don’t support your business and your dreams because I do. I’m sorry if I don’t slow down enough and hug you and tell you how much I love you and how grateful I am to have this life with you. Because oh, I do, and I am.

I’m sorry I let Riley pick out your birthday wrapping and that your presents came in a giant Transformers bag. I’m sorry you’re 37 today because damn, Grandpa.

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Comments

44 Responses to “Probably going to break a hip soon”

  1. Eric's Mommy on August 2nd, 2010 11:28 am

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY JB!!

    August is a good month to be born in :)

  2. Annie Stevens on August 2nd, 2010 11:28 am

    Awesome! Hope he has a great day, he’s lucky to have you.

  3. Marie Green on August 2nd, 2010 11:51 am

    Aw, I hope he has a great day. And I can only imagine the stress you are under right now. What huge (and admirable) life changes you are making!

  4. Alie on August 2nd, 2010 12:17 pm

    Happy Bday JB!

  5. Amy on August 2nd, 2010 12:25 pm

    at least the kid barf made it to the toilet? that’s a positive, right? :)

  6. marilyn on August 2nd, 2010 12:27 pm

    Three cheers for Johnny Bravo!

  7. Victoria on August 2nd, 2010 12:36 pm

    Happy b-day JB!

  8. Baking Mad Mama on August 2nd, 2010 12:48 pm

    Happy birthday to JB! Hope he has a great day.

  9. Autumn on August 2nd, 2010 1:01 pm

    Happy Birthday JB!

  10. Rachel on August 2nd, 2010 1:16 pm

    Happy birthday JB! Hope you get laid!

    Linda – when i comes to apologies, I have always found that a BJ speaks louder than words. Especially if you hum.

  11. souphead on August 2nd, 2010 1:46 pm

    Awww! Happy Birthday JB!!!

    I know how it is the feel proud and supportive yet be way too frustrated by the hard stuff to show it (just ask my husband about the last few years as he finished school full-time).

    You’ll get where you want to be…

  12. Deb on August 2nd, 2010 1:56 pm

    Happy B-Day JB!

    Wait till he turns FORTY. Then you can REALLY bust his balls.

  13. NancyJ on August 2nd, 2010 1:57 pm

    Aww! Happy Birthday JB!

  14. Trina on August 2nd, 2010 2:46 pm

    Happy Birthday JB! I hope it’s a good one!

  15. MRW on August 2nd, 2010 2:50 pm

    Happy Birthday JB! And 37, pfft, youngin’!

  16. Judy on August 2nd, 2010 3:30 pm

    Happy birthday to JB! Still just a kid!

  17. lisa on August 2nd, 2010 4:13 pm

    Its all such a delicate balancing act. Its all going to work out -there are just going to be bumps along the way. You’re lucky you have each other. :) Happy bday JB. Also– seriously, more barf? Didn’t you just have this a few weeks ago? Im sorry! If it makes you feel any better my daughter had diarrhea and it leaked out of her diaper and I was cleaning/spraying/scrubbing shit out of the carpet. I felt like I had a dog all over again, except the dog I could send outside. ;)

  18. ginger on August 2nd, 2010 5:11 pm

    Happy birthday, JB!

    Insert denture cream/Geritol/Depends joke here.

    Yeah, nothing between 35 and 40 registered as anything for me but getting closer to 40. Forty was okay, though.

  19. Anonymous on August 2nd, 2010 5:43 pm

    Opening line says enough!

  20. lindsay on August 2nd, 2010 6:25 pm

    my god your blog screams gratitude.

  21. Joanne on August 2nd, 2010 6:48 pm

    Hey! 37 seems young to me, you whippersnapper, you!

  22. Stephanie on August 2nd, 2010 7:11 pm

    Welcome to 37 JB (I’ve been here since May). Thanks for sharing your wife with us!

  23. Carrie on August 2nd, 2010 7:40 pm

    Happy birthday, JB. And, I’ll probably be writing a very similar note to my own best friend and husband in four days. So thank you for the inspiration.

  24. Melissa on August 2nd, 2010 7:58 pm

    Haha, i love this. so awesome. My better half turns 35 tomorrow, so fitting.

  25. kim on August 2nd, 2010 8:37 pm

    Happy Birthday, JB! On an unrelated note, I was looking at the keyboard dealywopthingamagig – and I’m wondering if you are working on a laptop type model? Maybe the lid can somehow come with the germzappopalooza thing? I know most of the doctors’ offices I visit who use EMR use laptops – which I why I ask. (forgive the overuse of technical terms)

  26. sooboo on August 2nd, 2010 8:46 pm

    Happy Birthday to JB. Anyone who can jump that friggin high is not so old.

  27. Stacy on August 2nd, 2010 9:03 pm

    Precious. Hope it was a fabulous day all around.

  28. Anneli on August 2nd, 2010 9:04 pm

    Happy Bday to J_Bravo.

    Hope he liked the Twitterpalooza in his honor.

    You are lucky to have each other, and that shines through in everything you write.

  29. Amanda on August 3rd, 2010 4:00 am

    37 is awesome!

  30. Michelle on August 3rd, 2010 4:44 am

    Happy Birthday JB!

  31. Carolyn on August 3rd, 2010 6:24 am

    Awwwww….I just love seeing two people who were so obviously made for each other. Your coupleness is so much fun to read about.

    Not to be confused with your coupling. I go elsewhere to read that kind of stuff.

    Happy Birthay, JB! Cheers to an astounding year ahead!

  32. Sara on August 3rd, 2010 6:26 am

    Happy birthday JB!

  33. JM on August 3rd, 2010 6:58 am

    Happy Birthday, JB! (You old fart.)

  34. Allie on August 3rd, 2010 7:06 am

    Happy Birthday, JB!!!

    And Sundry, that was beautiful.

  35. Janet on August 3rd, 2010 9:52 am

    Linda – Been there and done that. Just know that as time passes and the kids get older (and more independent)it WILL get easier. I totally remember when my girls where little and how life was a blur. Just remember to take a time out for just the two of you once in a while. It’s so very important.

    Happy Birtday to JB, these are the best years!

  36. Junni on August 3rd, 2010 10:28 am

    Happy Birthday Super Jumper Man!

    And come on down to Oregon, we’d love to have you.

  37. Erika on August 3rd, 2010 3:15 pm

    Happy Belated Birthday! And many more (without the kid barf)!!

  38. Sonia on August 3rd, 2010 3:20 pm

    Haaaaappy Biiiirthdaaaaaay JB!!!!!

  39. Samantha on August 3rd, 2010 3:24 pm

    There’s no way JB is 37. God, I hope my husband is that HAWT when he’s that age in 7 years.
    Happy Birthday JB!

  40. Lena on August 3rd, 2010 4:21 pm

    I’m with Samantha – who cares about turning 37? What really matters is that he’s a total hottie! (and a good dad, husband, blah blah)

  41. Endo on August 4th, 2010 8:19 am

    You’re a good person .. and an even better wife. (and as someone said, a BJ speaks louder than words. really cute, frilly panties are even better)

  42. KKF on August 4th, 2010 10:17 am

    Happy Birthday Big Man (and thanks to both of you for making your 30’s look sexy! Keep it up!)

  43. Jane on August 4th, 2010 8:26 pm

    ya’ll are too cute…

  44. Shawna on August 4th, 2010 8:53 pm

    WTF? JB is YOUNGER than me? I had no idea.

    Humph. Happy Birthday anyway JB.

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