I was kind of worrying that since we had no particular plans for the holiday weekend that it would seem a little bit . . . oh, tedious, I guess. Three long days of kid-wrangling, with no relaxation to be found, stuck at home while everyone else cavorts around on their ski boats and stuff, wah wah. You know, because why just assume the glass is half empty, when you can also fret about whether or not it also contains a drowned spider?

Instead, it was a perfect sort of family weekend: lots of playing and working in the yard, a few local outings, and two mornings of slutting the bed until — O, I can barely type it with my still-trembling-with-pleasure fingers — 9 AM.

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I hope you had a good weekend too.

PS: For those of you who know a thing or two about running, I could use some advice. I’ve started jogging around our neighborhood again, spending about 45 minutes at a time. Right now I’m doing about a 50/50 mix of running/walking, but I try and work in some short sprints, and runs up steep hills. Which then KILLS ME DEAD, so I walk longer afterwards. So! In order to improve my fitness level, would you recommend trying to run longer intervals, even if I have to jog really really slow to avoid total lung collapse — or is it better to keep trying to run harder, for shorter intervals (which hopefully become longer intervals)?

Comments

83 Responses to “Apres-weekend”

  1. Junni on May 26th, 2008 8:21 pm

    Um, no idea about the running thing. I do fast-walking because running hurts my boobs. No, really.

    But I had to comment because the picture of cat is just so lovely (with a little evil hidden in there).

  2. Kate on May 26th, 2008 8:24 pm

    I’m sure the more seasoned runners will weigh in, but I would definitely say stick with the intervals as you are. There’s not a whole lot of difference between a slow jog and a walk, and the pushing yourself bits get your heart rate way up, which is good for losing weight and getting in shape.

  3. Emily on May 26th, 2008 8:27 pm

    It’s better to do a slowish, steady pace, if you’re doing it for fat-burning. There’s a biological/scientific/whatever reason for that, but I can’t remember what it is. It just works.

    Also! Dude! I am out of the army now! Woooo!

  4. Erin on May 26th, 2008 8:42 pm

    TOTALLY depends what you want to accomplish. There are so many various schools of thought on it. I would switch it up. A couple of your runs should be slow and steady. Another couple of your runs should be intervals - the whole jog/run/sprint action - done at your particular skill level.

    For your slower, steadier runs, make sure you’re going a long distance. Have you checked out GMaps Pedometer? I love it. Super awesome for figuring out distances.

  5. Jo on May 26th, 2008 8:46 pm

    I’ve got nothing to add on the running thing but love the pics - yay Cat!!

  6. Valria on May 26th, 2008 8:50 pm

    Google Couch to 5K.
    Cool Running has a great program to get beginners into running.

    or here’s the link
    http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml

  7. Erin on May 26th, 2008 8:57 pm

    I agree with Valria. I started running using the Couch to 5k program, and it really works out well. There are also some podcasts that you can get from iTunes or from this website: http://www.ullreys.com/robert/Podcasts/page6/page6.html Towards the end of C25K I started using the podcasts and they were very helpful. Then, once you’ve finished that, sign up to run a 5k, you’ll have a lot of fun. It’s also nice to have something to work towards. Good luck!

  8. anna on May 26th, 2008 8:59 pm

    I run.
    Better to do longish, steady runs than harder,up-hill, shorter run-walks.
    Best to try and jog the whole time too at a slowish pace rather than switch between walking and faster jogging.

    Also, more than trying to do longer times ie. 45mins 4x p/week, for weight loss it is better to do shorter and more frequent runs - ie. 35mins 5-6 times p/wk.

    And can i just say Dylan aka Mini JB

  9. jonniker on May 26th, 2008 9:04 pm

    Aim for time (as in length out there doing it), never speed. At least not until much, much later, like if you’re training for a road race and care about that kind of thing. This is assuming general fitness is your goal. You can totally worry about speed later. Keeping your heart rate up for longer will give you better results than just pushing for little sprints.

    And really, not to beat a dead horse, but the Couch-to-5K saved my running career, back when I was first starting. It’s fantastic to get going, and yes, it alternates between jogging and walking, but the goal is to get you jogging a full three miles.

  10. jonniker on May 26th, 2008 9:07 pm

    Also, I think I misunderstood your question, so forget it. I just … well, I say take it easy and don’t push yourself to injury, is all. It’s easy to do with running. You have good shoes, yes? Relatively new? And you replace them often? Don’t forget to do that. It’s so important.

  11. All Adither on May 26th, 2008 9:08 pm

    My cat wishes it were your cat. He never gets to go out.

    We had a nice weekend too. The weather certainly didn’t hurt.

  12. Lesley on May 26th, 2008 9:08 pm

    I’m an ex-runner, but back in the day before an injured knee took me out, I found Gabe Mirkin’s site very helpful. He’s a medical doctor and an athlete and he has a lot of running and fitness tips.
    www.drmirkin.com/fitness/index.html

  13. Angela on May 26th, 2008 9:10 pm

    When I first started running, it was with my boyfriend at the time, who was quite a seasoned runner.

    He always said to me, it’s a matter of endurance, and stamina. Keep a steady and constant pace, and you will improve. He always encouraged me to run slower, therefore, increasing my ability to actually make it home with out feeling dizzy, and like I was going to die from my entire chest collapsing. Not to mention that unpleasant burning and dryness at the back of your mouth, that makes you feel like you want to vomit.

    I found this method actually worked really well for me and I was getting pretty good (for me anyway) until we split up, and I subsequently stopped running.

    I would like to get back into it again though, but I’m really not looking forward to the whole re-priming my body for running again. Ugh.

  14. clare on May 26th, 2008 9:11 pm

    i’m all for interval sprints/jog if you want to improve your aerobic fitness and/or burn fat. your body sets itself in a holding pattern if your pace remains constant. its the same as weights; if you can 5 sets of ten reps super easy all the way through then you’re not going to build any muscle are you? i’ve found that twenty min of INTENSE, and i mean INTENSE interval training has twice the effect as jogging for an hour, even more so if you do twenty min in the morning and then again in the evening….. it keeps your metabolism working hard 24hrs a day.

  15. Misty on May 26th, 2008 9:31 pm

    i am another runner. slow and steady with increase your endurance pretty quickly. There is another good website www.runningahead.com Cool Runnings used to be really good, but a few months ago, it switched sponsors or sometihng, and isnt user friendly anymore. RA has some AWESOME forums, with great people and info. Late Dec, I couldnt run a quarter mile, and now I can run about 4 miles without stopping/puking. And I just did a half Marathon a few weeks ago (13.1 miles). It only really took me about 4 days before I could feel my body apendages again. Um yea, probably not what you have for a goal, but it was one of mine.

  16. Josh on May 26th, 2008 9:32 pm

    I also had one of those do nothing all weekend holidays. It was AWESOME, and I don’t even have kids. There was a spontaneous cookout, and … nothing else. It was great. Fuck doing things when you could be actually relaxing. And I found out that I don’t have to go to court on Tuesday, which added even a little more relaxation to my weekend, without, you know, looming jail time. I just sat around and smoked weed and drank burrs and didn’t really accomplish anything besides cooking some really good food and cleaning out the garage part way.

    I do happen to know quite a bit about running, and my professional opinion is that you should not talk about running until my friggin memorial day weekend is officially over and I wake up to a new work week, thank you very much. Vacation sadist!

  17. clarabella on May 26th, 2008 9:34 pm

    Yikes, the running. Makes me wheeze a little just thinking about it. Good thing torn knee cartilage has knocked me out of that workout.
    But–Good Luck to you! I’ve had friends love the C25K too.
    Just wanted to say your family and yard(!) are beautiful as always.
    And Cat, well, Cat still looks a little evil to me.

  18. hollylynne on May 26th, 2008 9:49 pm

    Oh my god . . .that first picture of Dylan . . . I can’t handle the cuteness!!!

  19. aibee on May 26th, 2008 9:58 pm

    The training style you choose depends on what you want to achieve.

    Do you want to be able to improve your endurance for running miles and miles? Or is your goal to be able to perform a series of high intensity intervals without needing paramedic intervention when you’re done?

    Both training styles will improve your fitness, but one will make you more aerobically sound, while the other will increase your anaerobic fitness.

    Upshot? It’s like training for any sport, and if you want to be a good swimmer, you don’t practice your badminton to improve your freestyle.

    That being said, if you want to interval train, you’ll still need a reasonable aerobic fitness base to start with- which you can then convert by training anaerobically.

  20. Trina on May 26th, 2008 10:22 pm

    I *heart* cat. Only because mine is equally as evil. :)

    I am also jealous. My son is one month older than Dylan and he doesn’t have nearly that much hair.

  21. sundry on May 26th, 2008 10:34 pm
    The question of what goals I want to achieve w/r/t running is a good one, I hadn’t given it a lot of thought. I suppose first and foremost I want to burn fat and calories, but I also just feel kind of wimpy having to continually stop and walk. It would be nice to work towards something meaningful like a 5K but I don’t know if I have the motivation to dedicate more time to running than what I already do (2x per week on average), that would deduct from other workouts and I do like doing a mix of things (Turbo Jam, yoga, gym elliptical, weights). On the other hand, I suppose if I want to get better at it I have to dedicate more effort into doing so.
  22. Chloe on May 26th, 2008 11:06 pm

    Couch to 5K is only intended to be done three times a week, so doing it twice a week (and just doing the third workout the next week) shouldn’t hurt too much, IMO. While running 5k is a goal, you don’t have to do a 5k afterwards– it just means that you can run for a half an hour straight without falling over and dying.
    I think you want to improve your AEROBIC fitness, from the way you describe your goals… so it’s better to run shit-ass slow and go for longer. It’ll burn more fat too, because your body will have time to convert fat to usable energy. When you start running, you’ll be going extremely slow for a while, but eventually the speed will come (with time, with time).

    I’m so jealous of your arms in that picture with Dylan! You don’t look even SLIGHTLY plump to me, for what it’s worth. Looking very svelte, even if you still have a bit of a pregnancy belly (which I can’t see, but I guess you can’t fit comfortably into your expensive jeans yet).

  23. Rachel on May 27th, 2008 12:31 am

    a few things about running (something I am very bad at, so you probably know these things already):

    Your body starts burning much more fat for energy after 20 minutes of cardio exercise. Until then you’re burning liver glycogen, but then you run out of that and your body starts breaking down fat into fatty acids so that it can construct glucose molecules from their parts. So I think the sustained jog/walking — anything that keeps your heart beating at an aerobic rate — would be better for fat-burning than sprinting followed by longer stretches of walking. (Guess who just took Nutrition 10.)

    Also, when I was on the high school track team (not because I was a good runner but because my boyfriend was on it and hey, guaranteed hanging out after school), we would do a long endurance run and then a short cool-down jog/walk and THEN we would do windsprints. So maybe do your hard stuff at the end of a more steadily-paced jog.

    Thirdly, I’m sure someone else mentioned this, but have you thought of the Couch to 5K program? It’s basically a low-key way to move gradually from jog-walking to more-jogging-less-walking and then into jogging-all-the-time. Lots of people have success with it. Just google it and you’ll find the info.

  24. donna on May 27th, 2008 12:38 am

    Dude, the only way I’d run is if someone was chasing me.
    I have several thoughts about your pics tho, Dylan is killing me with cute, he and Riley look exactly alike, (are you sure Dylan is new and not a clone?), JB and Riley are smiling exactly the same, and Dylan is looking SUSPICIOUS!
    Also you are very skinny and cute, your grass is perfect, and cat had just had a good roll in it didn’t she?

  25. B on May 27th, 2008 3:48 am

    Is that a hint of suspicion on Dylan’s face in the picture of him with JB and Riley? It was only a matter a time….

  26. Eric's Mommy on May 27th, 2008 4:20 am

    Glad you had a good weekend!

    We didn’t do much either. Went to a BBQ at my inlaws. While we were sitting there eating, in the shade under a big umbrella that my Mother inlaw just bought, a big gust of wind came by and picked the umbrella up into the air and smashed it down on the porch breaking it. Then I got sunburned.

  27. Cass on May 27th, 2008 4:36 am

    You look fantastic #1 and I guess it depends on what you’re trying to achieve with the running. If it’s improved muscle tone then the sprinting and resting is the way to go - it helps develop your fast twitch muscles. If you’re looking to set a larger fitness goal (which is my plan once this baby girl gets her eviction notice) and train for a marathon (even though I’m not sure I’ll actually “run” in one) I highly recommend the Non-Runners Marathon Trainer…helped me train before and having a pace defined kept me motivated.

  28. Erin on May 27th, 2008 5:02 am

    Oh! OH! I actually know something about this topic.

    I’d run shorter intervals right now, and walk longer. Gradually move more toward running, but not an entire hill. And no sprinting! Maybe run the first half of the hill, walk the second. There is no need to sprint. Ever. Or at least until you are running most of the time and want to train to pick up the pace. Mainly, I’d do whatever will help keep you getting back out there, feeling like, “hey, I want to do this again tomorrow,” or however close to that you can get, then do THAT.

    Good thing you put the text at the end of the post, because those photos of the boys made my mind go totally blank. It was very zen-like. They are SO CUTE. And WOW, Dylan is really looking like his own little person, you know? Like he’s not a newborn anymore.

  29. Allison on May 27th, 2008 5:11 am

    Wow, Dylan is getting so big! Seeing that you can handle two kids and not lose your self or your sanity makes me thing that maybe I can do it… eventually. One’s enough for now.

  30. Anonymous on May 27th, 2008 5:14 am

    There are already too many comments than I have time to read right now, since I am on a public computer with 3 minutes left in its session, but as a long-time runner I will say that both types of workouts have different benefits for different fitness purposes.

    I think for yours, which as I understand it is general fitness and weight-loss, then continue jogging even at a slow pace to build endurance.

    But the shorter, harder sprints are good, too, and ultimately it’s exactly that sort of cross-training stuff that will produce the greatest weight-loss & fitness improvement. So I say, do both, but alternate the days. Devote some sessions to running without stopping, and others to the harder-shorter variety.

    If you want to do a 5k again, then the second kind will do the most to improve your race time.

  31. Deanna on May 27th, 2008 5:19 am

    Babies not runnig —
    Hey- my little girl is quite taken with one of your boys. She’s almost one and this morning she saw their photos on the screen and lit up- all smiles and coos. Then she looked at me and back at the screen and did a HUGE sigh. *grin*
    Yeah, your boys are dolls and I am not sure which one she fancies but this does not bode well if she s boy crazy at age 1!!

  32. Samantha on May 27th, 2008 5:23 am

    I have no advice on the running thing because I can’t run for shit, I look like a goober doing it and usually have a severe asthma attack after doing it…

    But I just wanted to say, your kids are so cute! I’m so jealous of you! :)

  33. eve on May 27th, 2008 5:42 am

    I only run when being chased by bears, but I just have to comment that you have the most gorgeous family ever! You are adorable, each and every one of you!

  34. Jolie on May 27th, 2008 5:44 am

    I am adding to what’s already been said just to second it.

    I would suggest (if you’re looking to build up your endurance a little- which will make ANY workout you choose later a little more bearable. God forbid- even enjoyable) working on running without stopping if you’re a beginner rather than running fast until you die and then walking. as others said, sprint intervals are good, even as a beginner, but not every day. try to switch it up so that you’re doing both evenly- working on your endurance one day and working on hard core hill workouts others.

    you’ll probably feel really lame slugging along and barely jogging instead of walking, but as far as building your endurance it really will help and you will be going farther sooner than you think.

  35. claire on May 27th, 2008 5:54 am

    I thought the same thing would happen to my weekend: be filled with the endless tedium of dealing with a baby. But it turned out way better.

  36. Swistle on May 27th, 2008 5:57 am

    Your babies = so cute. I had thought no baby could be as cute as Riley, but I was WRONG WRONG WRONG. Also: I think Dylan looks like a JB clone.

  37. Gwen on May 27th, 2008 6:19 am

    Well, I was going to suggest the Couch to 5k program, but it looks like a bunch of people beat me to it. It’s great, though! I’m actually planning to restart it this summer (first year of law school = very bad for working out) and try to run a 5k or 10k in September.

  38. Sarah on May 27th, 2008 6:26 am

    Hi there! I am poor at commenting usually but you asked about one of my favorite topics! I am not a trainer or anything, but I would personally advise to continue the short bursts of speed/hills on one of your workout days, pushing to make them longer, and on another day try to run farther, gradually improving your overall speed. This will keep your muscles from getting lazy and used to the same kind of action all the time. Just my two cents, I haven’t read the other comments! (Going to do that now since there’s probably some good advice!)

  39. Stephanie on May 27th, 2008 6:34 am

    I am a former fat girl who had to walk for like EVER before I could even get to a jog, but I prefer to do a ramp up then slide back down strategy. I think I learned this in some magazine like Health or something. It works best on a treadmill bc you can see how fast you are going, but it works outside too.

    Start at a basic easy pace and slowly increase, run like hell is at your heels for like 30 seconds then slowly decrease.

    On a treadmill this would amount to 5 min at 5 mph, 4 min at 6 mph, 2 min at 7 mph and 30 sec at 7.5 mph then back to 7, 6, 5. Then a lovely cool down. I am sure you can just approximate the speeds by the burning in your legs and lungs.

  40. Beej on May 27th, 2008 6:50 am

    I walk all winter and jog all summer. Here’s how I wean off the walking to full on jogging in the spring:

    Week 1
    Walk 5 min, jog 1. Repeat until you are done with your route.

    Week 2
    Walk 4 min, jog 1. Repeat.

    Week 3
    Walk 4 min, jog 2. Repeat.

    Week 4
    Walk 3 min, jog 2. Repeat.

    Week 5
    Walk 3 min, jog 3. Repeat.

    Week 6
    Walk 2 min, jog 3. Repeat.

    Week 7
    Walk 2 min, jog 4. Repeat.

    Week 8
    Walk 1 min, jog 4. repeat.

    Week 8
    Walk 1 min, jog 5. Repeat.

    Then after week 8, you will eliminate 1 walking stop per week–first eliminate the first walking stop. Then eliminate the second, then third, etc.

    As for your jogging speed, I am of the “do what you can” school of thought. To me, jogging is all about the attitude with which I approach it. If I look at it like a chore, then it will remain undone like last night’s dishes. But if I look at it like a personal challenge, or even just a time to be by myself to let my mind wander, then it’s actually quite nice.

    Even if you are jogging slowly, you are still jogging and just give yourself some credit for just getting out there and doing it. If you stick with it, you will eventually get stronger at it.

    If you beat yourself up about it too much, you’re not going to enjoy it. Enjoying your time to jog is what will get you doing it and looking forward to it.

  41. Joanne on May 27th, 2008 6:53 am

    I agree with those that said you should run so you enjoy it. Since you are not training for a marathon, (yet), just try and do what makes you feel good. I find there is a natural progression through the walk/run where you just feel like jogging sometimes, and then you feel like going faster, and then it’s too much so you slow down, and so on and so on. I think there are also podcasts you can get for different kind of runs and you can let your music be a guide.

  42. nonsoccermom on May 27th, 2008 6:55 am

    Eee! Your kiddos are cute cute cute. Dylan’s little cheeks just kill me.

    Your cat looks suspiciously like mine. Does she bitch constantly too?

  43. Jules on May 27th, 2008 7:19 am

    Whoa, I did the Couch to 5K program, too. I had no idea that it was so popular, or so successful for so many. I, for one, can vouch for it. Before trying that program, I always wanted to be a runner, but I felt like dying when I actually tried to run.

    My verdict is that I was trying to go too fast, too soon, and for too long when I had tried to run in the past.

  44. In the Trenches of Mommyhood on May 27th, 2008 7:19 am

    I vote the Endurance/Stamina route. When I first started running, I MADE myself go 30 minutes w/o stopping. Granted, it was barely a crawl…

  45. Debbie on May 27th, 2008 7:21 am

    I did a 5K training progam after having my son and was only able to go twice a week instead of the progam’s three times a week schedule. Most of those work well as you don’t overdo it on the run part and you find yourself wanting to say five minutes without stopping then you could jump into the program at that point. I was never much of a runner before I had my son but it is mostly what I do now as I can do it from the house and it’s quick. When I feel ambitious, I take him along in the stroller.

  46. Debbie on May 27th, 2008 7:22 am

    Somehow I totally butchered that comment. I must have hit a key before submit. I was trying to say the programs usually leave you wanting to run more than you are “allowed” for the day. I would figure out how long you can run comfortably now and jump into the program at that point.

  47. Cara on May 27th, 2008 7:30 am

    Like a couple of other commenters, I only run when being chased as well. But I did have to say that it’s nice to see that suspicion apparently runs in your family, as demonstrated by Dylan in the picture of all 3 of your guys and the one of Cat.

  48. Meagan on May 27th, 2008 7:33 am

    I would recommend Dance Dance Revolution. Running blows.

  49. beach on May 27th, 2008 8:22 am

    you have gorgeous kids…

  50. the goddess anna on May 27th, 2008 8:49 am

    I can’t run (anybody have a spare knee to lend me?), so I cannot help there.

    The pics are beautiful - your kids are so cute! Although I’m really commenting to say something about Cat - how awesome is he in that last picture? I’m part-owned by an identical black cat… good to know that mine’s not the only one that looks so evil while just chillin’ around. : )

  51. victoria on May 27th, 2008 8:59 am

    Runnning: Less is more. Read Doctor Mama’s advice on this.

  52. Amy on May 27th, 2008 9:01 am

    Hey I just wanted to say thank you (again) for all the working out inspiration and information. I’m trying to lose the 12 lbs from the latest miscarriage and for a champion non-excerciser, it’s been tough. But I’ve been trying all your suggestions here and actually feel good about it now. Granted, I threw my back out after one week of trying, but I’m almost healed now.

    Also, I see somebody beat me to it, but I had to comment about Dylan’s suspicious expression in that picture with JB. Runs in the family, I guess. (Are there zombies living in your house or something? :)

  53. Val on May 27th, 2008 9:09 am

    I cannot help you on the running. Why? Running, what’s that - torture?

    I just love the picture of the 3 boys in your life. Dylan definitely has the Riley look down pat. Must be a family trait.

  54. Annie on May 27th, 2008 9:34 am

    http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml

    This is a great plan to get you from not running to running a 5K arranged into a workable plan. It sounds like you are no couch potato, so I think they also have one to get you to 10K in the same amount of time.

    I tried the 5K plan. It didn’t kill me, when I really thought it might. And each step feels like an achievement which helped keep me going.

  55. Gaby on May 27th, 2008 9:36 am

    Like victoria said, check out doctormama’s blog (doctormama.blogspot.com). She inspired me to get out there and just try to run. She pushes for running S-L-O-W-L-Y (like, embarrassingly so), but I can actually do it and go out and do it again the next time and not hate it. Good luck to you!

  56. zdoodlebub on May 27th, 2008 9:42 am

    I have no running advice because I have no knowledge of things I hate.

    I don’t usually comment here, but I had to tell you that you are a hot mamma. Your welcome. It’s a sincere compliment with a dash of envy. How unfair to look that good with a baby that age.

  57. zdoodlebub on May 27th, 2008 9:43 am

    I mean, “you’re welcome.” der

  58. christen on May 27th, 2008 9:44 am

    Run slower, longer. Anything else is asking for an injury (shin splints, runner’s knee, chondromalacia, etc etc), and you need to build up endurance.

    Intervals are fine to mix in, of course, but stick with the long and slow. Everyone likes it long and slow, right?

  59. JAmie on May 27th, 2008 10:20 am

    You know, based on the fact that you like variety I would say do both whenever you feel like it. Based on the other workouts you already do, I would say go for distance, you already seem to be doing things that get your heart rate up (good for heart health). I get bored easily…so even though i try to run for distance I like to mix it up and try to run up a hill or sprint to a mail box etc. etc. whatever keeps it fun.

  60. Lori O on May 27th, 2008 10:56 am

    one of the things my running coaches taught to beginners is start with the run/walk, with certain measured intervals, and slowly decrease the walk interval and increase the run interval, and eventually you’ll be running the whole time. So if you start running 3 min, walking 3 minutes, go to run 4/walk 2, run 5/walk 1, and then all run, or whatever mix of intervals works best for you.

  61. Heather on May 27th, 2008 11:56 am

    You look so freaking tiny! I can totally see the muscles in your oh so slender arms. Nice job!

  62. monkey on May 27th, 2008 12:11 pm

    Dylan is such a clone of JB.

  63. Jennifer on May 27th, 2008 12:39 pm

    What informative comments! I also think the Cool Running program is great, but it’s nice to read about some other options!

    I said it over on flickr and I’ll say it here too - I just love that first picture of Dylan! So cherubic! So happy! I hope he gets the bug out of his ass soon so you can get some sleep!

    Also, Cat!

  64. moonspun on May 27th, 2008 12:52 pm

    I am a beginning runner since last summer, and I’ve run 4 5k races. My fiance is a marathoner and ultra-runner and my coach. I am a slow runner, but in all the runs I do I always ‘run.’ Even if people who are walking are actually passing me. I’ve asked my fiance over and over again, ‘how can I be faster?’ his answer is always the same. Just keep running consistently, same pace as many days a week as you can. You’ll get faster with time. So you can follow a program. Or you can just get out there for your 45 minutes and run consistently as much as you can and not worry about speed. Good luck!

  65. js on May 27th, 2008 1:10 pm

    That first picture kills me! Way too cute! I know nothing about running. But that Couch to 5K thing sounds pretty cool. What do YOU know about making your knees not kill when you run? I see people with those black bands around their knees. Is that what those are for? You are far more inclined when it comes to the working out thing. I’m more…reclined. Like in a chair.

  66. Jessica on May 27th, 2008 1:32 pm

    I have no tips on the running, but I wanted to say that Dylan is soo super cute in that first photo. He’s a bit of a redhead! That’s the kind of picture you keep in your mind when you’re looking for the volume/standby button, I’m guessing.

  67. Carla on May 27th, 2008 2:40 pm

    I just have to say that the first picture of Dylan is so friggin’ cute that I might just relent on my no-baby-for-a-long-time stance. Sigh- you enjoy those two!

  68. Chris on May 27th, 2008 3:35 pm

    I don’t know shit about running, but I adore Dylan’s expression in that one

  69. Chris on May 27th, 2008 3:36 pm

    I don’t know shit about running, but I adore Dylan’s expression in the fourth photo. It just cracks me the hell up.

  70. Leslie on May 27th, 2008 3:56 pm

    I just discovered your blog and I have to say - you are the bomb! I run like a wounded gazelle so you definitely don’t want tips from me, but I just had to comment on you post,9-5 and otherwise. I so related to everything you said -you summed everything up so nicely. I was rolling along a pretty sweet career path and I hopped off when I had my first child. I now have two kiddos and I’m working part-time in a completely different field. It’s a very low key position and sometimes it can honestly be pretty boring - but it provides very well and it is perfect for my life at this point in time and that’s what I focus on. And since I’m no longer spending excess amounts of energy in a demanding job, I taking up new interests, like blogging and digital scrapbooking. And your comments about milk-barfs, poopy diapers and screaming melt-downs - OMG I can so relate. Thanks for being so damn refreshing - I will be back often.

  71. Colleen on May 27th, 2008 4:34 pm

    How is the world did that tiny baby get so big???

  72. Erin on May 27th, 2008 5:23 pm

    SmartCoach is a tool on RunnersWorld that I’ve used to start up running again - and really, I’m super, super, super slow.

    You just type in your current ‘time’ for a mile (even if you’re walking some of it) and what your end goal is (to be able to run a 5K, a mile, a marathon, etc.) and it will guide you to what you’re supposed to do. I’ve been on it for about 4 weeks, and I’m already so much better at just being able to run a mile that I ever thought I would be.

    There is also the “Run a minute, Walk a minute” route you can go and as you get better and not feeling like crap after running a mile, you extend to to run two minutes, walk a minute, until you can run a full mile.

    Hope that helps!

  73. launchingsloth on May 27th, 2008 7:41 pm

    1. What the *hell* are you dieting for?

    2. Not that you even remotely asked, but I have tried every single kind of running shoe available since high school track (OH so long ago), and I recently discovered SAUCONY GRID is the all-time best running shoe made to date. And I had to tell you that.

  74. Dawn on May 27th, 2008 8:02 pm

    On the running: do a little of both. Stick mostly to the longer, slower intervals but once every couple of weeks? Do some shorter, faster ones up the hills. Mixing things up will be good for you and help you improve both speed and endurance.

  75. Annie on May 27th, 2008 8:10 pm

    I enthusiastically second the SAUCONY GRID suggestion. I love, LOVE my SAUCONY GRID COHESION NX’s. I can almost always find last year’s colors at a DSW type of shoe store for a good discount.

  76. Kristi on May 27th, 2008 9:26 pm

    Dude, I do believe I heard about Couch to 5K FROM YOUR BLOG way back when. lol

    You have lots of advice - I just wanted to throw out a great site!
    http://www.marksdailyapple.com

    I had been half-assed jogging for about a year before adding in faster sprints periodically - and I noticed a difference in my fitness level almost immediately with the
    intervals added. I also do insane hills (run down, fast walk up) and they are AWESOME for legs and butt! Good luck - there’s nothing that gives you that “just worked out” feeling better than running!

  77. sooboo on May 28th, 2008 1:50 pm

    I’ve been running for about 10 years with no major injuries. I also have never had any training, and I flunked PE in high school for 3 years. So, take this opinion for what it’s worth. I run hills and flats but on different days to mix it up a little. I started by walk/ jogging the hills and it took me about 6 months to actually run up a hill, full tilt. I would say always start slow, if you haven’t been running for awhile. This may be hard for you to do because you’re so damn hard core!

  78. Mel on May 28th, 2008 3:57 pm

    I can’t beyond running intervals. Stupid exercise induced asthma and a bum knee from running hurdles in high school. :p

    I’m stuck on week 2 or 3 of the couch to 5K plan. :)

    PS: Your family is so freaking cute. :)

  79. andi on May 28th, 2008 7:55 pm

    9am? I sort of hate you right now. Oh, but look at those sweet baby faces. I just can’t hold a grudge.

  80. Kari on May 29th, 2008 9:44 am

    God, I have such a thing for Riley. He is incapable of taking a bad picture.

  81. Rayne on May 30th, 2008 12:48 pm

    I would keep going for as long as you can regardless of the speed, that will kick in when you are ready.

    You look great, BTW.

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  83. Eric on June 16th, 2008 4:23 pm

    In General: I just started reading this after either dadgonemad.com or Alltop.com mentioned it, and I likes! I keep flicking on Google Reader’s “share” tag hoping my wife will start using the dang thing someday, I know she’d get a kick out of to. Anyway, enough with the “first-time caller, long-time listener” BS.

    On Running: I would heartily recommend building your base up for at least 4-6 weeks by doing long, slow runs. After that, work on whatever floats your boat. Some quick notes on what heart rates might give you, from lowest/least intense to highest/most:

    Weight loss: The hallmark of this pace is what many call “conversation pace”. If you can hold a conversation while you run, you’re at a good fat-burning pace.

    Cardiovascular conditioning: Medium pace

    Speed: Anaerobic, intervals, cardiac arrest type workouts

    I’m a former runner of sorts, but now that my knees sound like Rice Krispies, I’m more of a cyclist (roadie). Something to keep in mind… ;)

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